{"id":2757,"date":"2025-01-23T00:54:41","date_gmt":"2025-01-22T21:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.demirhalil.com\/?p=2757"},"modified":"2025-01-23T00:54:42","modified_gmt":"2025-01-22T21:54:42","slug":"dogruluk-durustluk-iyilik-kotuluk-edep-ahlak-nankorluk-insan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.demirhalil.com\/?p=2757","title":{"rendered":"Do\u011fruluk, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck, iyilik, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck, edep, ahlak, nank\u00f6rl\u00fck\u2026= \u0130NSAN"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Dikkat! Bu yaz\u0131 baz\u0131 mesajlar i\u00e7erir\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yaz\u0131m\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hem olumlu hem de olumsuz baz\u0131 kavramlar var. Bu kavramlar insana ait olan de\u011ferlerdir. Son g\u00fcnlerin hat\u0131r\u0131na i\u00e7imdeki sesleri yaz\u0131ya d\u00f6kmek istedim. Ba\u015f sallamak, g\u00f6rmezden gelmek, enayi gibi hissetmek yerine, g\u00f6r\u00fclmediklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnenlere g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fcklerini sobelemek gerekirdi. Belki iyili\u011fe de katk\u0131m\u0131z olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan denilen canl\u0131 en g\u00fczel hasletleri bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir melektir. Bir dosttur, bir cand\u0131r, g\u00f6n\u00fclda\u015ft\u0131r, yolda\u015ft\u0131r, sevgidir, merhamettir, ahlakt\u0131r. K\u0131saca \u0130NSANDIR.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prof.Dr. Nevzat Tarhan bir konu\u015fmas\u0131nda \u201c\u0130nsan, negatif ve pozitif y\u00f6nlerin kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131ndan olu\u015fmu\u015f bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong> diyor. Negatif y\u00f6nler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise en k\u00f6t\u00fc yarat\u0131k haline bile d\u00f6nebiliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsan ve insana insan olma vasf\u0131 kazand\u0131ran de\u011ferler hakk\u0131nda her zaman bir \u015feyler s\u00f6ylenir, yaz\u0131l\u0131r, \u00e7izilir, tart\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130yilik yapan birisi olmak bunlardan birisidir. \u0130nsana iyilik yapmak ne de yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz g\u00fczel s\u00f6ylemi\u015f: \u201c\u0130yilik yap denize at, <\/strong>bal\u0131k<\/strong><\/a> bilmezse Halik bilir.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu s\u00f6zden iyilerin illaki bir g\u00fcn kazanaca\u011f\u0131 sonucunu \u00e7\u0131karabiliriz. \u0130yi bir insana da iyilik yapmak yara\u015f\u0131r. Her ne kadar yap\u0131lan iyilikler k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck olarak geri d\u00f6nse de ve k\u0131sa zamanda iyilik yapmak cezaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fse de iyilik yapmaktan vazge\u00e7memek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ancak unutmayal\u0131m. \u0130yilik yaparken se\u00e7(e)memek de bir acizliktir. Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar bunu g\u00f6stermeli. Tecr\u00fcbelerimize ihanet etmemeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Biliriz ki \u201cedep sahibi yaln\u0131zca iyiliklerden zevk al\u0131r.\u201d Ya edepsizse!!!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do\u011fru s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek bir ba\u015fka de\u011ferdir. Yani yalanc\u0131 olmamak. Do\u011fru s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleyen ki\u015fi g\u00fcvenilirdir. D\u00fcr\u00fcstt\u00fcr. D\u00fcr\u00fcst insan g\u00fcven verir. Dokuz k\u00f6yden kovulsan da do\u011fru olmaktan korkmamak gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHi\u00e7bir miras do\u011fruluk <\/strong>kadar<\/strong><\/a> zengin de\u011fildir.\u201d <\/strong>s\u00f6z\u00fc bu i\u015fin \u00f6zetidir. Ya d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck i\u00e7in s\u00f6ylenen \u015fu s\u00f6ze ne demeli:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cD\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck bedenindeki ruha verilen h\u00fck\u00fcmdarl\u0131kt\u0131r. Taviz verirsen kendi h\u00fck\u00fcmdarl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda k\u00f6le olursun.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Diyor ki d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fckten \u00f6d\u00fcn verirsen nefsine yenilirsin. Nefsine yenilirsen h\u00fck\u00fcmdar de\u011fil k\u00f6le olursun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eskitirsin. Neyi mi? Neyi kullan\u0131rsan\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendini kontrol edemeyenler ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n kendi ad\u0131na kontrol sa\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorlar. Yani kendinde insan olman\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc bulmak yerine ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc istiyorlar. Bilmiyorlar ki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olman\u0131n t\u00fcrl\u00fc yollar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Ancak d\u00fcr\u00fcst olman\u0131n bir tek yolu var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ozaman bo\u015funa s\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f: \u201cD\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck pahal\u0131 bir m\u00fclkt\u00fcr, ucuz insanlarda bulunmaz.\u201d <\/strong>D\u00fcr\u00fcst insan ahlakl\u0131 insand\u0131r. Ahlakl\u0131 insan deyince, alt\u0131na insan\u0131 insan yapan b\u00fct\u00fcn kavramlar\u0131 s\u0131ralayabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Victor Hugo ne g\u00fczel s\u00f6ylemi\u015f: \u201cYalan zeka i\u015fidir, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck ise cesaret. E\u011fer zekan yetmiyorsa yalan s\u00f6ylemeye, cesaretini kullan da d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmay\u0131 dene.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eyy Victor Hugo, hem yalanc\u0131, hem d\u00fcr\u00fcst de\u011fil, hem nank\u00f6r, hem zekas\u0131z, hem de cesaretsizse ne olacak?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oyuncak m\u0131 dedin?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fars\u00e7adan gelen \u201cnank\u00f6r\u201d<\/strong> kelimesi. Al\u0131n size insanl\u0131k d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir kavram daha. Nank\u00f6r olmayan insan iyi bir insand\u0131r. \u00dczerine bilimsel makaleler yaz\u0131lan nank\u00f6rl\u00fck i\u00e7in \u015fu c\u00fcmle her \u015feyi sabitliyor: \u201cNank\u00f6rl\u00fck, esasen insandaki bir\u00e7ok olumsuz davran\u0131\u015ftan kaynakland\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi pek \u00e7ok olumsuz davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131na da kaynakl\u0131k edebilen bir davran\u0131\u015f problemi olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130nsani de\u011ferlerin yoklu\u011fu ya da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nerede mi arayal\u0131m? Bu i\u015fin mesle\u011fi, az okumu\u015fu, \u00e7ok okumu\u015fu, bilim adam\u0131, dindar\u0131 dinsizi diye bir ayr\u0131m\u0131 yok. Yoklu\u011funda insan yok, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00fczellikler hakim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yaz\u0131n\u0131n sonunda k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklere kar\u015f\u0131 Y\u00fcce Mevla\u2019n\u0131n bir ayetinin meali akl\u0131ma geldi. Bakara Suresi 179. Ayette insanlara bir mesaj veriliyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ey akl\u0131 erenler, \u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fc temiz kimseler, korunman\u0131z, sak\u0131nman\u0131z i\u00e7in k\u0131sasta size hayat var (<\/strong>Abdulbaki G\u00f6lp\u0131narl\u0131 Meali<\/strong><\/a>).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allah idrak kayb\u0131 verip k\u0131sasta \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcy\u00fc kaybettirmesin.<\/p>\n

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